—Motivation for Modern Moms—
In an effort to be a more organized mom, a better art director and a more organized woman in general, I’m joining my fellow #coolmom friend, Brooke Jazmyn, in the #NoRushNovember challenge.
We bonded on a recent roadtrip about how chaotic our mornings are. Brooke transports her 4 year old son to pre-k and then travels to her job as Communications Manager at LVMH. I’m responsible for getting my 6 year old off the 1st grade and then traveling to my clients at Essence Magazine. The added pressure to be current on the latest style and beauty trends adds another layer of panic in the a.m. Like HOW am I supposed to pack a lunch, brush everyone’s teeth, wash the mornings dishes AND manage to cover my under eye bags and add a fun lip color?
In addition to being tasked with raising a human and running a household, I’ve recently taken on working full time outside my home.I’ve worked in the magazine industry for over 15 years…. bouncing in and out of several lifestyle publications such as Real Simple, Women’s Health, Latina, Lucky, Redbook and Suede. I gave up on trying to balance the job, single motherhood and life when my daughter was 8 months. I quit my full time job at Latina Magazine and started a freelance position as an Associate Art Director at Lucky Magazine. I took a lowerHow do you balance life as a full time working single parent?This is the most common question I get on panels, podcasts and interviews.For the most partI don’t.1. I give myself a breakI’m not too hard on myself. I used to operate with a ton of mom guilt. My to-do lists were pages long and if I wasn’t able to check off each task, I’d feel like I’d failed.At this point I do what my energy allows.2. Mommy and Me TimeMy daughter gets my full attention from3. Clear BoundariesI set clear boundaries at work and at home. I’m responsible for after school pick up at 6pm. That means that by 5:15 I need to be heading towards the elevator bank, to hop the train by 5:25, before my 10 minute walk to school. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to cut off a conversation, leave a meeting to hit this daily deadline. I never feel guilty for having to go. I have to be incredibly focused and efficient at work.For the past 3 years
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I recently received some life-changing advice that’s helped me get through this back-to-school season with ease. Transitioning to fall can be tough for some parents. Summers are so much more laid back. You can arrive at camp whenever you please. You can skip it all together if you don’t feel like getting up. There’s no homework. The school year, however, needs much more structure (and much more energy for mom.)
When people ask how I get it all done, I often share my tips for time blocking. Basically, I break my day up into breathable chucks. Instead of taking things “day by day” I usually go “quarter by quarter”. There are a MILLION things that need to get done in a day…but if you can compartmentalize and figure out what you can do in a 3 or 4 hour chuck of time it leads to a much more manageable and productive day.
Time-Block Your Day
Coffee time! For me, coffee is comfort. My parents and grandparents were big coffee drinkers, so the smell of fresh coffee makes me feel comfortable and at home. I use it in the morning both to wake up and to relax. It’s basically my version of comfort food. From the first hot sip, to the last cool one, I savor every second. While I can get coffee anywhere along my commute, I love my morning ritual of making my Dunkin’ Donuts® Original Blend Ground Coffee brew at home. When I get up, it’s still dark and quiet and the city is still. Being able to cuddle on my favorite chair in my corner while my French Press fills my home with the fresh aroma of coffee is priceless to me. The Original Blend is everything you love about Dunkin’ Donuts coffee….all ground into one delicious roast. It’s smooth and full of flavor and gives me the boost I need to get my day started right.
From the second that my daughter wakes up until about 8pm, I’m running all day. The most important part of my morning is the 15 minutes I get to myself. Without it, I’m a mess.
*9:00-12:00 / 12:00-3:00 / 3:00-6:00 PM
My schedule changes constantly and as a freelance Art Director, I juggle several projects and proposals at a time. I, like most working moms I know, could use a few more hours in the day.
Time blocking works for entrepreneurs and business owners— whether you work in a formal office, a temporary co-working space, freelance full-time, or work from home with your kids. (I speak from personal experience, as I’ve had just about every single work situation imaginable.) I suggest a short break after each quarter. Reward yourself for all the work you’ve accomplished and fuel up for the next quarter. After crushing my goals from 9-12, I grab lunch and treat myself to my favorite dessert. After the 12-3 slot, I brew another cup of Dunkin’ Donuts® coffee . It gives me the energy I need to make it through school pickup, dinner and homework. I like to give my kid my full attention and match her energy in the evenings until her bedtime, and then finish up projects and freelancing at night.
If you have any advice to share on going strong from sun up to sun down, leave a comment below!
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Does this look familiar to you?
This was a far too regular scene for us early this summer. We were invited to an impromptu pool day with friends in Chicago. It was a scorcher and I grabbed the first toddler swimsuit and tube of sunscreen from a local Target that I could find. Fast forward to pool prep and here we are.
Luckily half way through the summer I was introduced to the Vichy brand. It’s hands down the best sunscreen we’ve found to date. Prior to finding Vichy, we just walked around ashy all day…..confidently protected from the sun, but drastically chalky. And who wants to look ghostly? Thank goodness I’ve found a sunscreen that blends seamlessly into our brown complexions. Scroll down for buying info for what I believe to be the only sunscreen that won’t doesn’t leave that ghostly white cast.
Vichy is my go-to for sunscreen for the whole family. I stock up at the very beginning of the summer every year. When I need to make sure my skin is protected poolside AND I’m photo ready all day, I turn to Vichy. See below
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Summer is coming to an end in NYC but that’s not going to stop me from living my whole life and continuing my spontaneous picnics in the park. I’m a super simple girl and it doesn’t take very much to make me happy: Sunshine, my magazines (gotta catch up on all the September fashion issues) and my snacks.
I keep my picnic basket packed and by the front door and I’m notorious for grabbing a blanket and snacks and lying out in the sun all day. I’m very lucky to be able to work from home, so the park is my go to when I need a break and some fresh air. While I love the quiet time to myself, I also love packing a few extra drinks and sending an invite out over group text. I can drop a quick pin and let all my friends know where to find my blanket.